{"id":3642,"date":"2025-05-12T18:13:02","date_gmt":"2025-05-12T18:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/?p=3642"},"modified":"2025-05-12T18:13:27","modified_gmt":"2025-05-12T18:13:27","slug":"loving-allowing-being","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/loving-allowing-being\/","title":{"rendered":"Kocha\u0107, pozwala\u0107, by\u0107"},"content":{"rendered":"

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By\u0142 bardzo ciep\u0142y, s\u0142oneczny poranek. Siedzieli\u015bmy przy stole, jedz\u0105c \u015bniadanie. \u015aniadanie nie nale\u017cy do mojej ulubionej pory dnia, bo zazwyczaj przynajmniej jedno z dzieci marudzi: \u201eZnowu owsianka?!\u201d albo \u201eTa jajecznica dziwnie smakuje\u201d lub \u201eNieeee! Tylko nie placki!\u201d. Tak wi\u0119c trzeba wtedy du\u017co oddycha\u0107, \u017ceby ich nie udusi\u0107! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

Tego konkretnego poranka wszyscy wydawali si\u0119 zadowoleni ze \u015bniadania. Spojrza\u0142am na ka\u017cdego z dzieci i \u2026 poczu\u0142am si\u0119 ze wszystkich stron otulona czu\u0142o\u015bci\u0105 i wdzi\u0119czno\u015bci\u0105 za to, \u017ce jestem ich mam\u0105. Mam\u0105, kt\u00f3ra si\u0119 troszczy, jest pe\u0142na cierpliwo\u015bci, otwarta na zabaw\u0119, kt\u00f3ra przytula, s\u0142ucha i inspiruje. Mam\u0105, kt\u00f3ra jest obecna ze wszystkim co si\u0119 w jej \u017cyciu dzieje. Wzruszy\u0142am si\u0119 t\u0105 pi\u0119kn\u0105 przyja\u017ani\u0105 z sam\u0105 sob\u0105. Kocham t\u0119 posta\u0107, kt\u00f3ra ma na imi\u0119 Marianna. I kocham to uczucie kochania jej. Ponad dwa lata temu, by\u0142am bardzo daleko od tego miejsca. Ca\u0142y czas siebie ocenia\u0142am, wype\u0142nia\u0142am kom\u00f3rki swojego cia\u0142a nienawi\u015bci\u0105 do samej siebie. Obwinia\u0142am si\u0119 za ka\u017cde wyzwanie, przed kt\u00f3rymi stawa\u0142y moje dzieci. Nigdy nie czu\u0142am si\u0119 wystarczaj\u0105co dobr\u0105 mam\u0105 \u2013 do tego stopnia, \u017ce wierzy\u0142am, \u017ce dzieciom by\u0142oby lepiej beze mnie. Moje oczy zacz\u0119\u0142y nape\u0142nia\u0107 si\u0119 \u0142zami.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 Mama, p\u0142aczesz? \u2013 zapyta\u0142 Marcel.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Czuj\u0119 ogromn\u0105 wdzi\u0119czno\u015b\u0107 \u2013 odpowiedzia\u0142am.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Dlaczego? \u2013 zapyta\u0142 Wiktor.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Bo uwielbiam by\u0107 wasz\u0105 mam\u0105.<\/p>\n

\u2013 A my kochamy mie\u0107 ciebie jako nasz\u0105 mam\u0119 \u2013 powiedzia\u0142a Aliya.<\/p>\n

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Chcia\u0142abym, \u017ceby ka\u017cda mama czu\u0142a swoj\u0105 warto\u015b\u0107 i wystarczaj\u0105co\u015b\u0107, poniewa\u017c ka\u017cda mama jest NAJLEPSZA \u2013 idealnie doskona\u0142a - dla swoich dzieci. To w\u0142a\u015bnie ona zosta\u0142a przez nie wybrana. To ich dzieci wybra\u0142y do\u015bwiadczenie tego jak mia\u0142y si\u0119 urodzi\u0107 lub jak d\u0142ugo mia\u0142y pozosta\u0107 w \u0142onie, nie przychodz\u0105c na \u015bwiat. To one wybra\u0142y jak d\u0142ugo maj\u0105 pozosta\u0107 na Ziemi... To nie by\u0142 przypadek. Wszystko by\u0142o cz\u0119\u015bci\u0105 g\u0142\u0119bszego, subtelnego, wype\u0142nionego mi\u0142o\u015bci\u0105 planu.<\/p>\n

Je\u015bli jeste\u015b mam\u0105 i zauwa\u017casz, \u017ce cz\u0119sto si\u0119 spinasz i oceniasz siebie (albo innych), chcia\u0142abym ci\u0119 zaprosi\u0107 do innej rzeczywisto\u015bci \u2013 takiej, w kt\u00f3rej jeste\u015b dla siebie czu\u0142a, troskliwa, cierpliwa i kochaj\u0105ca. Jedyne co musisz zrobi\u0107, to prostu pozwoli\u0107 sobie poczu\u0107 te wibracje, wyk\u0105pa\u0107 si\u0119 w nich i pooddycha\u0107.<\/p>\n

Nie musimy czeka\u0107, a\u017c kto\u015b nam to wszystko zafunduje \u2013 wr\u0119cz przeciwnie. Mo\u017cemy da\u0107 to sobie same, w ka\u017cdej chwili. I szczerze? To 1000 razy lepsze ni\u017c s\u0142odycze! Zachwycanie si\u0119 z samego bycia ma w sobie pot\u0119\u017cn\u0105 moc.\nA gdy zakorzeni si\u0119 to w ciele \u2013 trwale pozostaje i wdzi\u0119cznie rozprzestrzenia si\u0119 na innych.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It was a very warm, sunny morning. We sat by the table eating breakfast. And breakfast is not really my favourite time of the day, as usually at least one of the kids moans: \u201cPorridge again?!\u201d or \u201cThose scrambled eggs taste funny,\u201d or \u201cNoooo! Not the pancakes!\u201d So, there is a lot of breathing involved […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3643,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[87],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-daily-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3642"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3642\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3644,"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3642\/revisions\/3644"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-remember.life\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}